Fixed it

all I had to do was:
--IDE ATAPI CD disabled
--SCSI Emuliatoion only
in the kernel
then I got:
scsibus0:
0,0,0 0) 'IBM OEM ' 'DCHS04Z ' '5353' Disk
0,1,0 1) 'COMPAQPC' 'DSP3053LS ' '440F' Disk
0,2,0 2) 'TOSHIBA ' 'CD-ROM XM-4101TA' '0064' Removable CD-ROM
0,3,0 3) 'TOSHIBA ' 'CD-ROM XM-4101TA' '0064' Removable CD-ROM
0,4,0 4) *
scsibus1:
1,0,0 100) 'LITE-ON ' 'LTR-0841 ' 'MS84' Removable CD-ROM
1,1,0 101) 'MT1316B ' 'BDV212B ' '0.43' Removable CD-ROM
1,2,0 102) *
akohlsmith: tnx for your help