turn off mouse focusing?
 

well, you can tell I am a newbie caz I don't even know how to turn mouse focusing off....
it's pretty annoying to me...I kinda would like in detail what file should I modify to change KDE settings like mouse focusing, autometic bring up (cursor bring up windows after 1 sec.)....thanx
I would like to do it by editing config files...so that I can learn about these files, not through some GUI, thanx..

I'm pretty sure you can just do that by right clicking on the taskbar on the bottom... anyone its one of those settings.. look through there.. oh and just use fluxbox

nope...I can't find anything relevant with [Right Click Taskbar]-->Reference

Open KDE Control Center ----> Look & Feel Section ---> Window Behavior Section