I tried doing ssh -vvv but it didnt output anything when the problem opened. I did get something from Ethereal. at 34 seconds the lagging started, here's what it said:
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34.033914 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 Client: Encrypted packet len=10
197 34.037314 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH Encrypted request packet len=20
198 34.087184 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 Client: Encrypted packet len=10
199 34.091359 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH Encrypted request packet len=20
200 34.205189 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 Client: Encrypted packet len=10
201 34.208298 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH Encrypted request packet len=20
202 34.316007 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Client: Encrypted packet len=10
203 34.320282 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH [TCP Retransmission] Encrypted request packet len=80
204 34.611226 192.168.0.5 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Server: Encrypted packet len=10
205 34.614221 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net 192.168.0.4 SSHv1 [TCP Out-Of-Order] Server: Encrypted packet len=10
206 34.614272 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP [TCP Dup ACK 188#2] 4628 > 22 [ACK] Seq=1093 Ack=752 Win=16769 Len=0
207 34.617207 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP 4628 > 22 [ACK] Seq=320 Ack=216 Win=16769 Len=0
208 35.102017 192.168.0.4 198.65.119.20 HTTP GET /hc/9104606/?site=9104606&cmd=inPage&page=http%3A//www.kvms.com/kvm_switches/2_port_kvm_switches.asp&title=2%20Port%20KVM%20Switch%2C%202-Port%20KVM%20and%202%20Port%20KVM%20Switches&visitorStatus=INSITE_STATUS&activePlugin=none&pageWindowName=&id=5439550396&scriptVersion=1.0&d=1091458774363&referrer=http%3A//www.kvms.com/kvm_switches/kvm_switches.asp%3Fr%3Dggas HTTP/1.1
209 35.120779 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Client: Encrypted packet len=10
210 35.124133 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH [TCP Retransmission] Encrypted request packet len=80
212 35.321951 192.168.0.4 198.65.119.20 TCP 3796 > http [ACK] Seq=2676 Ack=1406 Win=15506 Len=0
214 35.523137 192.168.0.4 198.65.119.20 TCP 3796 > http [ACK] Seq=2676 Ack=1581 Win=15331 Len=0
215 35.985995 192.168.0.5 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Server: Encrypted packet len=10
216 35.988991 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net 192.168.0.4 SSHv1 [TCP Out-Of-Order] Server: Encrypted packet len=10
217 35.989041 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP [TCP Dup ACK 188#3] 4628 > 22 [ACK] Seq=1093 Ack=752 Win=16769 Len=0
218 35.991998 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP 4628 > 22 [ACK] Seq=320 Ack=216 Win=16769 Len=0
219 36.730282 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Client: Encrypted packet len=10
220 36.733855 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH [TCP Retransmission] Encrypted request packet len=80
221 38.735523 192.168.0.5 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Server: Encrypted packet len=10
222 38.738535 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net 192.168.0.4 SSHv1 [TCP Out-Of-Order] Server: Encrypted packet len=10
223 38.738583 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP [TCP Dup ACK 188#4] 4628 > 22 [ACK] Seq=1093 Ack=752 Win=16769 Len=0
224 38.741530 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP 4628 > 22 [ACK] Seq=320 Ack=216 Win=16769 Len=0
228 39.949297 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Client: Encrypted packet len=10
229 39.953374 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH [TCP Retransmission] Encrypted request packet len=80
230 40.802718 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 Client: Encrypted packet len=10
231 40.806188 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSH Encrypted request packet len=20
232 41.741473 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 Client: Encrypted packet len=10
233 41.746028 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net 192.168.0.5 SSHv1 [TCP Previous segment lost] Client: Encrypted packet len=10
234 41.748043 192.168.0.5 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP 22 > 4628 [ACK] Seq=752 Ack=1013 Win=7504 Len=0 SLE=130256670 SRE=130256690
235 41.751046 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net 192.168.0.4 TCP 22 > 4628 [ACK] Seq=752 Ack=1013 Win=7504 Len=0 SLE=130256670 SRE=130256690
236 42.098487 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 Client: Encrypted packet len=10
237 42.102978 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net 192.168.0.5 SSHv1 Client: Encrypted packet len=10
238 42.104954 192.168.0.5 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net TCP [TCP Dup ACK 234#1] 22 > 4628 [ACK] Seq=752 Ack=1013 Win=7504 Len=0 SLE=130256670 SRE=130256710
239 42.107963 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net 192.168.0.4 TCP [TCP Dup ACK 235#1] 22 > 4628 [ACK] Seq=752 Ack=1013 Win=7504 Len=0 SLE=130256670 SRE=130256710
240 42.108017 192.168.0.4 c-67-165-13-113.client.comcast.net SSHv1 [TCP Retransmission] Client: Encrypted packet len=10
A has the *5 IP and B is *4. I'm not sure that that all means, but it's different than the output when things are working.
Here is the SSH version in case that helps:
OpenSSH_3.4p1, SSH protocols 1.5/2.0, OpenSSL 0x0090602f