Hello.
Choosing a distro is a question of personnal taste.
I like ubuntu for myself.
There are many distros which try to emulate windows out there.
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www.distrowatch.com
No problem reading NTFS partitions.
Writing NTFS is working well, but at your own risks. NTFS is proprietary, so the linux implementation is based on reverse-engeneering (in other words, guessing).
FAT partitions are older and the linux support is more mature.
You will need to invest some time before you can appreciate the full power of linux. It doesn't work quite like windows and the philosophy is quite different. It is much more flexible and you can do a lot of things with it that you can't do with windows but you need to know how to use it first. Try and scoot, don't give up and you'll enjoy.