Hmmph, forgot that. Further, if you do that (which can be done) you get a possible clash in version magic when you try to boot the thing.
Best to install your new kernel, and reboot on it. It will behave the same as your old one.
Code:
cd /usr/src/linux-<version1>
cp arch/x86/boot/bzImage /boot/vmlinux-<version2>
cp System.map /boot/System.map-<version2>
cp .config /boot/config-<version2>
You need to fill in version1 and version2
version1 is the stuff after 'linux' in the /usr/src directory. Something like -3.14.5
There is a CONFIG_LOCALVERSION setting in the config. It installs and adds this local version on the end. My box has '-6' as a LOCALVERSION, so the modules are in /lib/modules/3.14.5-6. That is <version2>. It often is the same as version1 (if local version is blank)
Now do your thing on grub or lilo, boot the new kernel, and compile the realtek module. The new kernel will have the module - not the old one.