thanks for your help guys......
I have managed to fix most of my problems..
1. things to work like there supposed to...
i was having all sorts of problems with any installs having to do everything the hard way, found out my sources.list repositorys list was severely incomplete, fixed that and apt-get works like its supposed to now.. added debain repos to my kali list too for extra goodies while i was at it, after clearing out multiple entrees i have it quite nice.
2. nifty tools....
just kept kali
3. tails stuff...
havent got that far.. reminds me to install whatever that disk wipe program is
4. cool knoppix animations
figured out how to install KDE... just what i always wanted...
damn if i just might say im getting pretty good at this stuff