I figured it out, I configured the first server and scp'd the file to the second server.
I am able to unplug one of them now and it fails over, however I am having difficulty with the first server, got some kinks to work out. I totally redid my configuration and I got luci running so I can bring up
https://servername:8084 in a browser and do configuration and restart services.
If anyone ever needs a hand on this let me know...