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03-04-2013 09:28 AM |
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Originally Posted by puppymagic
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I did see her in person once. She is the best friend of one of the girls named Helen who comes to my church. I saw a few pictures of Kristen posted by Helen and I fell in love. A few days ago, I saw Kristen waiting for her bus at the bus stop and approached her and said hi to her and asked her "Do you have a friend named Helen?" (Of course she does. I just had to start a conversation) and I told her I saw her on several photos Helen posted a few times. I asked her name (Of course I knew what her name was. But I had to make sure not to scare her) and she told me her name and then she also asked me my name. She and I currently go to the same school (I knew that too) and she asked me a few questions about our school and I asked her if she is enjoying going to our school. And a couple of days later (of course I could have sent her a message on the same day but I had to SLOW DOWN) and told her that I am the tall guy she saw a couple of days ago and wished her luck for the remainder of her undergraduate. Then she said things similar back to me on facebook. Another while later I asked her if I can add her and we became friends on facebook. Fortunately, she is best friends with Helen and Kristen also saw that Helen and I are friends on facebook and that made Kristen feel less scared.
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So you lied to her several times, then kept messaging her, even though she didn't reply, then told her she "won your heart"? Gee...wonder why she didn't respond.
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A couple of days later on her facebook status she used profanity and stated she was harrassed.
I sent her a letter to comfort her.
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Did it ever occur to you that she felt that YOU WERE HARASSING HER??
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ok, I might be reading more responses on this thread, but I will no longer be making any more posts. Anything I say any further will be nothing more than an excuse to everyone on Linux Questions.
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Because that's what it is. Your behavior towards her is troubling, and I don't doubt she's concerned about your actions (and not in a good way).
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Maybe there will be a sticky note saying, "puppymagic should stop posting on General in LQ"
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Grow up. The majority of your posts on LQ aren't in ANY WAY Linux related, but at least you're posting in the correct forum. You asked a question, and got answers and advice, but ignore it all. You seem to be doing nothing but defending your position, rather than considering what's been said. If you're not going to take advice, don't bother posting a question.
You're acting like an unstable person towards her; you posted her name here (WITHOUT her knowledge...editing it later and pretending like you didn't, doesn't help your case), then you wonder why she won't go out with you, or even answer you? No idea how old you are, but if you're old enough to have a job, you're old enough to act like a man. Learn to handle rejection, and if you want to ask a woman out, walk up an ask. Don't play games, be direct. No means no, period.
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EDIT : Well, I was a bit exaggerating that "she won my heart" To be brutally honest, not quite. There were three girls in the past who truly won my heart and soul. Kristen is not one of them. She is, to be honest and to be exact, "someone I would not mind going out with" rather than "something I truly want to go out with".
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....which contradicts not only what you said here earlier, but what you told her. Which story would you like folks to believe now?
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