By hiding .kde and letting the system create a new directory, I'm effectively a new user and it works. The problem appeared to be that the upgraded KDE did not handle the previous version's configuration very well.
I restored .kde and ran
Code:
dpkg-reconfigure -a
It took a long time to answer all the questions, and 2 tries to login, but now I have everything back to normal. I do not know what specifically fixed things. The first try, after enabling only the external monitor, resulted in a black screen with a tiny cursor. The cursor moved with the mouse, but there was no response from clicks or key-presses. The second try worked.