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Vmware Server 1.0.1 - very confused! any help would be THE SHIT!
I have a 64 suse 9.3 amd 2800+
just a note i did get vmware server installed on a 32 bit clean install on suse 10.1 (my test box) went to this site http://www.novell.com/coolsolutions/feature/15963.html and did this on my suse 10.1 box "have a kernel-default and a make file, but we are missing the kernel-source, gcc, and gcc-c++ packages. This is what you would see with a typical installation."
this worked!
now on my suse 9.3 64bit i run the command

Code:

rpm -qa kernel* gcc* make

all is cool i think

Code:

kernel-default-2.6.11.4-21.13

gcc-3.3.5-5

gcc-c++-3.3.5-5

kernel-default-nongpl-2.6.11.4-21.13

make-3.80-187

so i try to install vmware server and i get to a stop point when it ask me for the dir

Code:

/usr/src/linux/

wtf so i try to cd into the dir, it is not there.
just a note i did try to do the command

# You should still be in a terminal and you should be in as root (su -). Change to the /usr/src/linux directory, type make cloneconfig; make prepare-all and hit Enter.
and this the problem

Code:

make: *** No targets specified and no makefile found. Stop.

and i found this solution of "You need to download linux headers with the apt command"
i can not get the apt-get to install
any info?
Thanks for any help!