If you need something that works and quickly I would recommend Skype, it's not opensource but free and works on Windows and Linux.
You could use gnomemeeting as Ephracis said but you need to meet it's dependencies and Slackware is no more current with Gnome.
There are other alternatives like Teamspeak where you could create a server and tell your brother to join it, it was designed for games, but works well for the family
As Gaim, there's a project planning to add support for video and voice called gaim-vv (when it's ready it will be merged with gaim) but there's no stable code yet.