Hi Holering,
Don't have much time to dialog -- this
CHOST guide from Gentoo should get you
enough information and links to further study on your own and, in the end my
opinion is on Slackware just leave it like it is.
Slackware is designed and built for the lowest common denominator, and as you
are finding out in your quest, it's hard to change it too much without breaking the
system and going through Hades with SlackBuild scripts.
My journey has been similar to yours ... Gentoo runs on the same hardware like a
scalded dawg compared to Slackware. The Gentoo docs and wiki are far superior to
those of Slackware. The downside is Gentoo is going to require more maintenance
to keep it at that state because it's a "rolling distro", whereas Slackware can be
left pretty much alone with just security updates.
If you need to use your computers to produce work everyday as we do here, it's a
bother to keep Gentoo updated ... unless you never run into dep issues at all.
Slackware is also much more flexible for building your own software than Gentoo, at
the cost, once again, of the base system (toolchain, libs, etc) all being i486 with
some tuning for i686 (does not compare to proper CFLAGS for modern CPUs at all).
Just my opinion ... disregard the obvious difference with that of others.