OK, it's up. Thank you guys for helping me troubleshoot this.
lsmod wasn't returning the tulip driver, so I did
and it showed me that the card is Realtek rtl-8139
It clearly says on the box SFA110A, CD says the module is tulip.
again, and sure enough 8139too module was getting loaded.
One thing that I didn't realize is that I needed to reconfigure inet1.conf. I just added yes to eth1 and when I
for the umpteenth time, it worked.
I guess I thought the new card will be automatically assigned eth0 but it seems like that eth0 is reserved for the my old builtin card.