eh, its pretty sad how I figured it out actually. hehehe
I had it all configured, and it was already going to 1024x768 . . .
so, after I realized that, I set to it 640x480, and realized I was wrong. ahaha.
btw, it was really late at night (i guess thats no excuse)
one more thing, it is ctrl+alt++ or ctrl+alt+- to cycle trhough screens. I had a problem with that too, didnt realize i needed to hold both ctrl and alt.