where to start?

yo. does anyone have any tips for me where to start if i wanna learn to program? wich language and any good siteswhere i can get a newbie help?

well it would be better if you had a preference for a languange, so with that said...i am just going to throw you some C / C++ sites, and i am sure others will add some others...
http://www.cprogramming.com/
http://www.cplusplus.com/doc/tutorial/
http://www.cs.cf.ac.uk/Dave/C/CE.html
http://www.uow.edu.au/~nabg/ABC/ABC.html
http://www.oualline.com/style/index.html

I started with c(still using it), this is the site i learned from:
How stuff work's

Thanks alot for the links. they are very helpfull
right now i just made my first program ever (a calculator that can count plus )

The best book for beginners, IMHO, is nothing but Bruce Eckel's book, i.e., Thinking in C++

Browse throw the book and you will feel the power of C++ flow through you(Ok,Ok)