Have you tried just loading RHEL without the official driver?
I installed in an indirect fashion (using OSCAR cluster toolkit from a 2950 head node) so I am not sure if the drivers are necessary for the initial install. If you can get it to install, boot into rescue mode using the install cds and try this modprobe.conf file if it kernel panics on boot.
Code:
alias eth0 bnx2
alias eth1 bnx2
alias scsi_hostadapter mptspi
alias scsi_hostadapter1 mptspi
alias usb-controller ehci-hcd
alias usb-controller1 uhci-hcd
alias scsi_hostadapter2 mptsas
alias scsi_hostadapter3 mptfc
These are all RHEL4 drivers though, so I think it ought to be possible without the Dell official driver.
ymmv of course.