Well, I'm still not giving up.. I have a hope someone will come up with a good idea
I looked in the logs, and here is a cutout from the boot sequence:
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Nov 17 13:45:23 192 partmon: OK
Nov 17 13:45:23 192 partmon:
Nov 17 13:45:23 192 rc: Starter partmon: succeeded
Nov 17 13:45:23 192 nfslock: rpc.lockd oppstart succeeded
Nov 17 13:45:23 192 rpc.statd[3267]: Version 1.0.6 Starting
Nov 17 13:45:23 192 rpc.statd[3267]: statd running as root. chown /var/lib/nfs/sm to choose different user
Nov 17 13:45:23 192 nfslock: rpc.statd oppstart succeeded
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This must be when it all stops and jumps into single user mode, and I have to type exit to get it to continue...

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Nov 17 13:43:42 192 rc: Starter hotplug: succeeded
Nov 17 13:43:47 192 perl: drakupdate_fstab called with --auto --add /dev/sda1
Nov 17 13:43:47 192 udev: Start udev succeeded
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Any ideas? Or should I just give up and learn to live with it...???
Well, I'm not the girl to give up so easily.... But if none of the Guru's here can help, who can?!?
-vibeke-