Well, I don't know how, but the card is now working - and I don't know which driver it's using because:
ndiswrapper -l
Installed ndis drivers:
bcmwl5 hardware NOT present
lsbcmnds hardware NOT present
wlipnds hardware NOT present
You can see that ndiswrapper is saying hardware not present for all of them. cardctl is outputting more information now then it has before:
cardctl ident
Socket 0:
no product info available
Socket 1:
product info: "Broadcom", "802.11b CardBus", "8.0"
manfid: 0x02d0, 0x0406
function: 6 (network)
cardctl info
PRODID_1=""
PRODID_2=""
PRODID_3=""
PRODID_4=""
MANFID=0000,0000
FUNCID=255
PRODID_1="Broadcom"
PRODID_2="802.11b CardBus"
PRODID_3="8.0"
PRODID_4=""
MANFID=02d0,0406
FUNCID=6
iwconfig
lo no wireless extensions.
eth0 no wireless extensions.
wlan0 IEEE 802.11g ESSID:"" Nickname:"new-host-5"
Mode:Managed Frequency:2.437GHz Access Point: FF:FF:FF:FF:FF:FF
Bit Rate=54Mb/s Tx-Power:17 dBm
RTS thr=2347 B Fragment thr=2346 B
Encryption key:E3D7-2180-9824-B34E-12B0-6131-3D Security mode:restricted
Power Management
ff
Link Quality:100/100 Signal level:-10 dBm Noise level:-256 dBm
Rx invalid nwid:0 Rx invalid crypt:0 Rx invalid frag:0
Tx excessive retries:0 Invalid misc:7189 Missed beacon:0
sit0 no wireless extensions.
(wlan0 is not setup now cause I'm at work, but the card is there and wlan0 is loaded)
I did find one other post about someone experiencing the same thing...no resolution to that though. Now I'm afraid to change something in fear that I might break whatever is working...lol...I think I'll still try the driver on the cd and see if I can get something more informative from ndiswrapper -l. I'll keep this post going and then post my steps so others can benefit...