w00t!!! I got it to work. Fluxbox with the XFCE4-Panel. Look here to see what it looks like on my comp: http://todkon.uni.cc/screenie6.png.
(sorry if it doesn't work when you try it. My site goes down sometimes :/.) I put the xfce-panel in my slit script for fluxbox so now gtk with a cool font, the panel, and a few other cool things automaticly load at start up on fluxbox :P.