what compile src and change path libarary
 

hi
i do this command

./configure --prefix=~/user/soft LIBS="-L~/user/soft/lib -R~/user/soft/lib"
make
make install

(compile and Without error, installed)

but?
How can i compile the software source code that act for searching and finding it's librarys as follow:

~/user/soft/bin/xine-----|
~/user/soft/lib <------|
~/user/soft/share <------|
~/user/soft/man <------|

or do to this way

~/user/soft/bin/xine

~/user/xine/bin>./xine

for fine libs and ... itself

../lib
../share
../man

why doesn't reply anyone to my question?
please help me.
thanks.