hmm interesting.
well, if it were me the first thing i would do is do a search for the timidity config file to see where it actually DID put it:
find / -name timidity.cfg
if that brings up nothing, then try and see where the program installed itself to after it was compiled and link it. So let's say it is in /usr/local/timidity as opposed to /usr/local/share/timidity , then you can just make a link from one to the other:
ln -s /usr/local/timidity /usr/local/share/timidity
let me know how you get on
