Thank you for still trying to help me... I do not run 64 bit..
I did check right now the version and to my surprise I found (yesterday was not like that) that after installing the latest Flash yesterday I actually had 2 Shockwave Flash versions enabled:
Shockwave Flash 10.1 r999 Gnash 0.8.8 the GNU SWF Player
Shockwave Flash 10.3 r183
I disabled the 10.1 r999 Gnash... and now YouTube videos work but still Facebook games don't load and also if I go google maps it would not display images from street level (still an improvement as YouTube works now