cPanel?
 

I have been trying to find a program like cPanel, but opensource/free. I have yet to do so... Anyone have any suggestions on where to look?

www.hotscripts.com you can find less than a handfull there. But they arent nearly close to cPanel or Plesk. If you're looking for a good one go for plesk its MUCH cheaper than cPanel however its only for like RH // Fedora and mandrake systems, and you have to use apache2. Or you can script your own :-D

hmmm, found these two
anyone have experience with either?
http://www.thezpanel.com/
http://www.molesoftware.com/www/index.php

zpanel is hackable, I`d try www.vhcs.net for sure. Free and good.