I swear that I had tried that, but I got no complaints this round, so thank you very much, bathory!!
For future viewers, it was indeed needed to change the configure to read like this (below); I also had to make clean before it would rerun make:
Code:
cd /usr/src/misc/php-4.4.9
make clean
./configure --prefix=/usr/local/php_4.4.9/ --with-apxs2=/usr/local/apache_2.0.63/bin/apxs --with-mysql=/usr --with-gd --with-jpeg-dir=/usr/lib --with-curl --with-openssl --with-zlib --enable-sockets --enable-memory-limit --with-dom --with-dom-xslt --with-dom-exslt --with-ncurses --enable-dbx --enable-dio --enable-experimental-zts --enable-ftp
make
make install
EDIT: This issue is SOLVED but I don't know how to mark that...