Yep it's running.
root 1104 0.0 0.9 6560 4764 ? S 21:40 0:00 Xvnc :1 -desktop
By the way thanks for that ps -aux command, will be helpful. Been using ssh lately instead of going downstairs. I'm trying to get to know how to do remote administration better that way if ever I get myself a dedicated server for my site I'll somewhat know what I'm doing.
I also got it to work. I did not know that I had to type the IP and the display. I was typing the hostname only. Now I forget the password, but I'll see if I can figure it out if not I'll post.