ok ... put the comment back in then.. just below the ServerName put
then in your listen section add
ps... when you compiled apache (RD httpd)... did you ./configure --enable-mods-shared=most --enable-ssl=shared ???
I hope I dont get in crap but I found a good how-to.. http://raibledesigns.com/tomcat/ssl-howto.html
if you can figure out how to uninstall the version you have now and follow that how to shouldn't be a prob.
from your .conf file
# UserDir: The name of the directory that is appended onto a user's home
# directory if a ~user request is received.
# The path to the end user account 'public_html' directory must be
# accessible to the webserver userid. This usually means that ~userid
# must have permissions of 711, ~userid/public_html must have permissions
# of 755, and documents contained therein must be world-readable.
# Otherwise, the client will only receive a "403 Forbidden" message