Looks like something wrong with your keyfile
debug3: Not a RSA1 key file /users/me/.ssh/id_rsa.
You should check the key files' contents.
The only person who can tell you how to connect is the sys admin.
If its ssh-keys only, looks like you may have to generate a new pair and send the pub key to him out-of-band or he may allow passwd access just long enough to send the new key.