The tutorial i want to request is:
1. Installing a x-windows server with kde or gnome on pretty much any distro
a. But having minimum services running. For example: dont just select desktop machine from the install menu. When you do that there is 100 other things running that I dont know what they do, so they probably dont need to be running.
2. Figuring out how to use ANY of the softwares that will allow me to connect to the linux machine and have a GUI! I dont care if its VNC or anything else. I've never been able to get one of the softwares out there to work.
(VNC works but it only displays terminal, no kde or gnome for some reason)
I'm not an idiot but I dont have an entire day to sit down and play with it... I've tried before over the period of several hours but it ends in failure each time. (and i just switch the machine back to windows)