Sorry for being a bit thick here ... .
I should be using SSH on my Linux box - the games server. And Putty on my windows box - my home pc that I want to use to access the server.
Putty looks like a straight forward self extracting/ installing program
I've looked for SSH and found this site
but when I look at any of the mirrors typical below
I am confronted by a screed of files - tarballs I've never dealt with but I have a small guide that I think I am okay with but it it which one of these files
Am I on the right track - any clues as to which of these files I should be looking for?
thanks for any help offered