one.com server two.com mail how to?????
 

if I have a website one.com running on server one, how can I make server two mail.one.com ?? what the dns and qmail modification would I have to do?
my job's in jeopardy....I would appreciate your help so much .

you'd think if you job is jeopardy you'd give us more that 2 lines to go on...

you want a box to handle email, but dpon't understand the dns requirements? just configure that IP as the MX record for the domain.