1) What is the output of
2) Did you use the winXP-drivers?
3) It would also be helpfull if you would be more specific about the errors when loading ndiswrapper.
I just got ndiswrapper working on my laptop after several attempts, and from my experience, if it doesn't say "Installed xyz drivers
xyz driver present, hardware present", it won't work. Also try using drivers from a different source, that did the trick for me.