Yes I understand you gezi. As I see it, this is *not* spam. I feel concerned by the way "someone" answered to you, because I did get similar answers myself.
Why not post here?
Linking is the basic building-block of the WWW.
So it's nothing bad.
And believe me, when you answer the same question for tens of users, and then again for several forums, you're *really* fed up with answering this question. Besides, this is a waste of energy, and a waste of knowledge, because each time you think about different details, and it's much better to add all those details to a single article.
This is why I created the Linux section on my site, and this is why I use links to my site too.
This is not spam. This is not for a "counter" (I don't have one). This is not for revenue (visiting is free). All the world is not in LQ.org.