You won't see the actual names of cards listed under the kernel module drop-down list, only the names of the modules they use. I believe your card should be using the "Sundance" driver. If you don't see it in the list, your kernel doesn't, as I said, have native support for it.
Which Linux distro (and version) are you using? That could help us sort out whether or not your card is supported. For more info, do a search on Google
for the keyphrase
+"D-Link DFE-550TX" +linux +module