New development:
I looked at some other mini type linuxes. found out about puppy linux. I burnt the image to a cd and booted it. pretty much worked but couldn't get anything like sound, wireless, mouse, usb flash drive running... the site told me to boot it from cd and then in the setup window there should be an option to install puppy to the usb. well there wasn't

...
So now I have a bootable linux OS at my command. Not that I can do alot with it for the time being

.
Anyway, all help still welcome on how to get my usb flash drive bootable
thanks!
edit:
I tried something. first syslinux.exe f: onto the formatted usb flashdrive and THEN unzipped feather onto the flashdrive. booted up.. at least i got more than a black screen
=>
Code:
Intel (R)Boot Agent
Copyright blabla
Initialising and establishing link
PXE-E61: Media test failure, check cables
PXE-M0F: Exiting Intel Boot Agent
j_ (flashing cursor)
Then the flashing cursor, no action. only option poweroff. Tried it a second time, same failure. Check my cables on a usb flashdrive?
i dunno... help?