Thank a lot, it worked perfectly.
Though, I was kinda stupid enough not to look hard enough in my GUI for remote desktop so I installed X11vnc and used that, it wasnt the easiest to do, because the latest debian release is missing the requierd libraries in its repos, so I had to use an ubuntu package, I donīt recommend this path, took me about 5 hours to find the libraries needed.
About the env variables. For other people who might have the same issue and want to execute gui programs through ssh.
1. log into the original machine that has the X configured (call it the server)
enter the command
look for DISPLAY and XAUTHORITY variables.
2. Enter the same variables (like said before as the same user) to your bash (putty for me)
$ export DISPLAY=whatever
$ export XAUTHORITY=whatever
Thats it, it works perfectly for me. Thanks a lot arizonagroovejet much appreciated.