I read up on the guide, but it's hard for me to understand alot of the good information cos im very new to linux :P
I fixed the login/vnc problem by removing the login screen.
(System Settings -> Advanced -> Login Manager -> Convenience, click on "Administrator Mode" and mark "Enable Auto-Login", then "Apply". ) if anyone needs it.
Now the ventrilo server, I made a script named ventstart
and i changed mode to 777 (tryed x first, but then i couldent run the script) "chmode 777 ventstart"
Now i can run the script ./ventstart and the server starts. I put this file in etc/init.d/ and did this command "update-rc.d ventstart defaults".
When i rebooted only the ventrilo server started, not the desktop. So i gues it took the desktops tty or something?. Am I even close to a solutiont ? Or am i way off :P