I was doing exactly the same mistake.
[hagrid@WISHMASTER ~]$ nmap 192.168.1.3
Starting Nmap 4.53 (
http://insecure.org ) at 2008-11-23 14:42 CST
Interesting ports on XXXXXXXXXX (192.168.1.3):
Not shown: 1709 closed ports
PORT STATE SERVICE
5900/tcp open vnc
Nmap done: 1 IP address (1 host up) scanned in 4.257 seconds
[hagrid@WISHMASTER ~]$ vncviewer 192.168.1.3:5900
vncviewer: ConnectToTcpAddr: connect: Connection refused
Unable to connect to VNC server
BUT when I do
[hagrid@WISHMASTER ~]$ vncviewer 192.168.1.3:0
Connected to RFB server, using protocol version 3.7
Enabling TightVNC protocol extensions
Performing standard VNC authentication
Password:
I am typing in a passwd and it lets me in.
Type in vncviewer 192.168.1.101:0
or vncviewer 192.168.1.101:1
Hope I have helped
Andy