To double check that the sshd daemon is listening on the system that you want to log into, run (as root):
Code:
netstat -pan | grep 22
This will show a list of processes that are listening on different ports. Obviously, you're only interested in port 22 right now. If it isn't running, you can start it with:
Code:
chkconfig --add sshd
/etc/init.d/sshd start
Please note that if you are a beginner with these sorts of things, you need to be careful. You are making your system available to anyone who'd like to take a crack at it.
I would strongly recommend that you disable root login via SSH, which can be configured in /etc/ssh/sshd_config. You might also want to configure additional authentication measures to ensure that you're the only person logging in.