I took a look at those manuals - they are pretty much all the same. Firewall is configured on Page 55.
Unlike my Netgear DG834G, your Belkin router doesn't have built-in support for a
VPN (
Virtual
Private
Network) which is what I think you'll need if "it would be just like her PC was in another room in our house."
So I suggest you search for
openvpn and
linux
But here are some links to help you understand what
openvpn is all about
:
http://www.osnews.com/story/5803
http://www.linuxconfig.org/VPN_-_Vir...rk_and_OpenVPN
http://www.linux.com/feature/58336
http://www.techimo.com/forum/linux-u...tu-dapper.html
Be aware that opening
any port(s) in your firewall is a potential security risk. You need to read up on setting up
ssh connections, public/private key authentication for
ssh, disabling root logins via
ssh, disabling username & password logins for
ssh (only allow key-based authentication) etc. and test this from your LAN
before you open any ports on your firewall.
Have fun!