Can't find where to set certain ports to listen
 

Hi..

I am trying to connect to my windows machine, to my mysql server running on Ubuntu Dapper.

When I type netstat -l I get:

Active Internet connections (only servers)
Proto Recv-Q Send-Q Local Address Foreign Address State
tcp 0 0 localhost:mysql *:* LISTEN
tcp 0 0 *:ftp *:* LISTEN
tcp6 0 0 *:www *:* LISTEN
tcp6 0 0 *:ssh *:* LISTEN

Now I am guessing I can't get into the mysql because of the fact that the local address is localhost:mysql (localhost:3306 if done with -n).

Question is how do I change that, if indeed thats the problem...

I am looking everywhere for like a .conf file in /etc but can't find anything...

Any help would be appreciated...

Regards
Gareth.

Also..

I can connect to MySQL when tunneling through ssh, but I don't really have a need to when it's on my local network, and I really want to use SQLYog, and do not at all need the enterprise edition where I can tunnel through ssh.