You might try some manual editing. Check the config file, typically /etc/pcmcia/config (or config.opts), you should see a listing for your card similar to:
card "3Com 572/574 Fast Ethernet"
bind "3c574_cs"
The bind line is what tells pcmcia what module to use for a particular card.
You might then try the section for the 3CCFEM556B card and edit it to bind that module to it. It's cheating a bit, but it might work. You might also check out the
pcmcia project pages and mailing list and see if there's more info. Perhaps submit a bug report as well, if it's not already a known issue.