i had similar problems with email address books, but i just yesterday exported my contacts from a nokia phone to vcf files, and imported those to an android 4.0 phone without problems.
if it's any help, an example .vcf looks like this:
Code:
BEGIN:VCARD
VERSION:2.1
N:DNA laskutus;;;;
TEL;CELL:044144011
X-CLASS:private
X-CATEGORIES:
REV:20140714T112248Z
END:VCARD
the name of the contact is "DNA laskutus".