i've got good news, i booted from the bootmagic rescue disc into xp and now it boots up into xp without going to grub and it now works okay. if i want to boot into linux i use the linux boot disk. unless this could harm the system i am fine with that.
i searched the forums on here for 'autocheck' and that's where i found out how to do it, thanks guys... guess i should use the search option before typing a question.
