Yeah it's possible that's going on because it looks like that's the case. Although I'm pretty sure that I didn't run fixboot or fixmbr before. Maybe windows saw that they were there so it didn't do anything with them, then I told it to install windows to sda2. Not really sure. I just know that my wife is really really frustrated with me.

One of the reasons I try to steer people into a virtual machine instead of dual boots. Keeps MS and wife working as they should. Happy and no BSOD.

Might be time to cut your losses and consider a vm.

Well the good news I've figured out that I can boot windows if I use a Super GRUB cd. I then checked what it used for it's grub settings to boot windows and it was just

However, when I update the menu.lst for that, it doesn't work. So I'm not sure what to do next.

Was the SGD using GRUB2?

That would explain the partition numbering.

Yeah SGD was using Grub 2