I appreciate both feedbacks from MasterC and SciYro... still no solution though... here is where I got:
From MasterC's suggestions:
1) typed 'mount'... it was not in the mount list, only my HDD was
2) tried mplayer from the CLI, had a diff. version than you so the commands were a little diff., it was easy to figure out what to change though and I did so... the results were the same as I note further down in SciYro's suggestions...
3) ... hmmm... don't have 'grip'... installed 'drip' in an attempt to do this originally... I have 3 other players though that handle DVD's and VCD's and they couldn't see the volume when I selected VCD
4) unmounted it (even though it wasn't mounted, just to be sure) and tried mounting it manually... got this:
mount: block device /dev/cdrom is write-protected, mounting read-only
mount: No medium found
From SciYro's suggestions:
1) OK, never done a symlink before but found it very easy... made one in /mnt/dvdrom as you suggested
2) typed the command exactly as you directed... here's the output I got (same output as when I tried MasterC's suggestion in re to Mplayer):
Playing dvd://mnt/dvdrom.
libdvdread: Using libdvdcss version 1.2.8 for DVD access
libdvdread: Could not open /dev/dvd with libdvdcss.
libdvdread: Can't open /dev/dvd for reading
Couldn't open DVD device: /dev/dvd
Exiting... (End of file)
So that's about where I'm at... any more clues????
BTW, I really appreciate your guys' help... I am no newbie on computers in general but other than just installing a few distro's and copying scripts from books to customize some setups (without having a CLEAR understanding of what I was doing, this is my first serious attempt to break out of Windoze permenantly... steep learning curve here!)