how to get rid of totem as default video player?
I'm a KDE guy and not terribly familiar with Gnome. I just installed Debian Lenny on my wife's laptop with Gnome (she hates KDE) and no matter what I do Totem always comes up when we put a video DVD into the player. I can't uninstall it; it wants to take the desktop with it (good riddance in my opinion, but it's my wife's machine). Does anyone know a way to fix this? My wife is the typical end-user; she wants convenience at all costs and if I can't make Kaffeine pop up when a DVD goes in I'm going to have to put Ubuntu back on this thing and deal with THAT big pile of headaches again.