There are funnier things than replying to your own thread all the time...
After I completed what I described above on my desktop machine (which I use as guinee pig) I tried the same on my laptop. It has basically the same installation, but since I use a Stable installation with traces of Testing on both machines, some packages are from a different distribution.
I have checked and I know that gtk2-engines-gtk-qt and gnome-settings-daemon are the same versions. I am not sure about all KDE and Gnome packages.
I did the same steps as in post #1, but as soon as I have gnome-settings-deamon running, no Gtk application would start again. If just briefly flashes the window outlines, and then dies. I have not been able to find a trace in any of the log files (~/.xsession-errors, Xorg.0.log, messages, syslog)
The good news is that on the laptop everything works as well,
without gnome-settings-daemon. Very nice and uniform fonts throughout all applications. Never had it like this before!
Another remark: now I have all the fonts like I want them, it is striking how much
better the quality of my CRT is over the LCD screen of the laptop (HP NC6230). Over any LCD screen as a matter of fact. Until now I have refused to switch to LCD on all of my desktops, exactly for this reason. Fonts look harsh and ragged. I can assure that this is
no Linux problem.If you look at the fonts with a magnifying glass, you see clearly that fonts
are anti-aliased. The CRT simply is much more pleasant to the eye due to the non-perfect technology (no single dots which are turned on and off and match exactly the pixel output of the VGA controller).
jlinkels