You can find a pre-configured kernel here:
http://packages.debian.org/testing/a...2.6-686-bigmem Keep in mind that this is for Pentium-like proc's on Debian Etch. If you run Stable, your options are very limited:
a) upgrade to Etch
b) configure and build your own kernel
The Etch installer automagicaly select the highmem kernel if it finds more then 1 GB of RAM. Making your own kernel has the benefit of being able to tweak it to precisely your hardware requirements.
This is Linux, the choice is yours!